A question put to me and i said no I am not. I find Mistresses and Masters or Doms have an opinion that they know what submissive's need. They call some submissives slaves, in my opinion this is wrong . Slaves have always been taken they did not submit to their will but forced to by conquest , sale or given by some one who had enslaved them. SO there is the first problem yes Virgina there is a difference in mind set and will. It could be a slave mind they are thinking about , but that to me is Africans that had no hope freedom nor enjoyment. Instead thousands of miles away from all that they knew. All they faced was doing what master wanted or punishment not where my head space is that to me is a doormat
Subs want to submit in my opinion they do not need anything to be taken they tend in my opinion to respect anything in leather and high boots.And that is fine it fulfills their needs. need honour, similar wishes and desired but most of all I need communication.
Next i am a switch I know both sides so I know when a Dominant is providing less then I would in a similar situation. I am very intolerant towards lazy dominants. Dominants must pay for their slaves some how part of the payment for a slave is activity At first the brat shows himself with lack of activity but later respect can be lost and the relations then deteriorates into unsatisfied partners. I have not really given up just If they do not live up to my needs I know I will not live up to theirs.
Now I play with a few Dominants when they have need of me but it is only play sessions, domination has to on my terns an in a fashion that I respond to. Otherwise instead of respectful slave you have one ready to revolt. So i would love to find a Mistress with an evil mind, the ability to enjoy what she is doing and the want to satisfied the needs of a slave. She must have a strong will and a great energy level , oh nails might be nice too!
Any one can try just remember i do bite.
Friday, March 28, 2008
Friday, March 7, 2008
Submission is not gauranteed
My slavery and I do not really care about anyone else's ideas of it as they cannot offer me only I can.
I do not submit because you have taken the title or call yourself Dominant I am not a submissive man .
I do not submit because you wish it there are no wizards no magic at least not powerful enough for you to click your fingers and in a puff of smoke I am transformed to a submissive male.
I am polite to those that have so named themselves as Master or Domme I follow etiquette.I do not bend knee nor will for them.
A submissive male not a bone in my body will say yes to that.
en·slave
To make into or as if into a slave.to make a slave of; reduce to slavery: His drug addiction has completely enslaved him.
—Synonyms enchain, shackle; control, dominate.en·slave
Yes that is what you have to do, you have to enslave me. You possess the strength, the will , the want and the desire to capture my soul and enslave it. For this you will need energy you will have to constantly on top of your game. You have to be an excellent communicator. Know what you want with me and then take control. Like a wild beast I will wait to see weakness in you do not let your guard down Expect me to stay trained if you are constantly training me. Let me languish or take it easy the beast becomes what they were wild non submitting.
What do you get , if you seek that stallion that obeys no one but you the tiger that drinks from your hand but bites all others that is what you get. Is this about sex? it is about power and the exchange of it , power and your ability to control it. My power and whether or not you can take it from me or at the least make me want to give it up to you .
Not everyone's cup of tea nor run of the mill slave at least in some eyes . I am not a submissive male nor doormat yet to the one with strength and ability I will lay and their feet and for your command.
I do not submit because you have taken the title or call yourself Dominant I am not a submissive man .
I do not submit because you wish it there are no wizards no magic at least not powerful enough for you to click your fingers and in a puff of smoke I am transformed to a submissive male.
I am polite to those that have so named themselves as Master or Domme I follow etiquette.I do not bend knee nor will for them.
A submissive male not a bone in my body will say yes to that.
en·slave
To make into or as if into a slave.to make a slave of; reduce to slavery: His drug addiction has completely enslaved him.
—Synonyms enchain, shackle; control, dominate.en·slave
Yes that is what you have to do, you have to enslave me. You possess the strength, the will , the want and the desire to capture my soul and enslave it. For this you will need energy you will have to constantly on top of your game. You have to be an excellent communicator. Know what you want with me and then take control. Like a wild beast I will wait to see weakness in you do not let your guard down Expect me to stay trained if you are constantly training me. Let me languish or take it easy the beast becomes what they were wild non submitting.
What do you get , if you seek that stallion that obeys no one but you the tiger that drinks from your hand but bites all others that is what you get. Is this about sex? it is about power and the exchange of it , power and your ability to control it. My power and whether or not you can take it from me or at the least make me want to give it up to you .
Not everyone's cup of tea nor run of the mill slave at least in some eyes . I am not a submissive male nor doormat yet to the one with strength and ability I will lay and their feet and for your command.
Diferent
A key word in the life style one that is very hard to twist or mis-interpret. if you say my lifestyle is more traditional or more extreme in an attempt to classify what you like or want you will and surely you find an arguments some where in the room . Most words used to describe the lifestyle are words of personnel interpretation or at least levels or degrees of the meaning.
Different means just that not the same as it can be close but not identical. Close friends can love the lifestyle have similar views enjoy some interaction but they are different. They way they approach it , how they live it , how they communicate all different.
I will not list what my deep thought are for others to read and say oh yeah that is me to because that would be an interpretation on the part of the reader putting their fantasies and experience onto my words and meanings. Those conversations are not meant to go on between you r fantasy and your needs . They should be for a sialogue , done face to face Dominant to slave
What this blog says is we have different needs and wants under the banner of the Lifestyle. Different definitions of what we are and what qualifies as meeting needs and communication. Communication different ? yes so different in how we expect things to happen and how they do again usually based on interpretation of rules that are in no book nor have one definition . If anything interpretation must be the worse master we have to please.
The old saying a picture is worth a thousand words is quite true the reverse use a thousand words to describe a picture like the game postman will seldom return an accurate visualization of what you have seen. So different is a good word for me.
Different means just that not the same as it can be close but not identical. Close friends can love the lifestyle have similar views enjoy some interaction but they are different. They way they approach it , how they live it , how they communicate all different.
I will not list what my deep thought are for others to read and say oh yeah that is me to because that would be an interpretation on the part of the reader putting their fantasies and experience onto my words and meanings. Those conversations are not meant to go on between you r fantasy and your needs . They should be for a sialogue , done face to face Dominant to slave
What this blog says is we have different needs and wants under the banner of the Lifestyle. Different definitions of what we are and what qualifies as meeting needs and communication. Communication different ? yes so different in how we expect things to happen and how they do again usually based on interpretation of rules that are in no book nor have one definition . If anything interpretation must be the worse master we have to please.
The old saying a picture is worth a thousand words is quite true the reverse use a thousand words to describe a picture like the game postman will seldom return an accurate visualization of what you have seen. So different is a good word for me.
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