Diferent

A key word in the life style one that is very hard to twist or mis-interpret. if you say my lifestyle is more traditional or more extreme in an attempt to classify what you like or want you will and surely you find an arguments some where in the room . Most words used to describe the lifestyle are words of personnel interpretation or at least levels or degrees of the meaning.

Different means just that not the same as it can be close but not identical. Close friends can love the lifestyle have similar views enjoy some interaction but they are different. They way they approach it , how they live it , how they communicate all different.

I will not list what my deep thought are for others to read and say oh yeah that is me to because that would be an interpretation on the part of the reader putting their fantasies and experience onto my words and meanings. Those conversations are not meant to go on between you r fantasy and your needs . They should be for a sialogue , done face to face Dominant to slave

What this blog says is we have different needs and wants under the banner of the Lifestyle. Different definitions of what we are and what qualifies as meeting needs and communication. Communication different ? yes so different in how we expect things to happen and how they do again usually based on interpretation of rules that are in no book nor have one definition . If anything interpretation must be the worse master we have to please.

The old saying a picture is worth a thousand words is quite true the reverse use a thousand words to describe a picture like the game postman will seldom return an accurate visualization of what you have seen. So different is a good word for me.