Dommes can make sense.

After reading a few post and an exchange of emails I have found a Dominant that has the same concept of what a slave should be. The term has been confused with being s submissive. While both submit they are two different beings. I first stumble upon her frankly because of her eyes and when I read a post of hers about safe words. I cannot see a slave using a safe word yes for a submissive. A slave should be able to offer themselves fully to their owner not just the things they desire to happen. She has the belief the slave is there for her pleasure not theirs. I am quite sure that if we talked to a galley slave from old they did not shout red when the rowing became too much for them.

It was nice to read some one willing to take the responsibility for their slave and not push it off onto the slave shoulders to do so. Many time slaves are in no position to do this when they are in pain they might just be enjoying themselves too much to care. A dominant that does not require thought by a slave, nor inform them of what service they would provide but instead inform them that there is no saying (no, I can’t I do not want to) or any other negative statement to her request. What a pure pleasure it must be, to serve some one so in control of their desires.

I also realize that so many times I have sought this type of dominance yet never found it. I gave into those questions that first came out of Dominants mouths. What are your limits is one. Almost begging you to inform them what limits they must live by. Except for any one not legal to make decisions I had none when I started. Now depending on how dominant or experienced they are makes my list of hard limits an appropriate length. I unfortunately have brought my level of slavery down to a deplorable low. Another question would be what don’t you like well as the slave why should the dominants care what I like? Only one dominant couple ever told me tough to be you , suck it up and do it. But I had dumped on them a list of hard limits that at best gave them headaches just trying to keep up to it. Why did I do it because they let me consider ever fear possible instead of forcing me to trust them by saying no? Funny, how a word so small, is so important to the raising of children and the training of slaves.

I have always said I do not submit or give my submission to any one they must take it. How to do this? The strength of word, character and conviction that you can convey. The use of the word no. To do this you must know what you desire and have the confidence to carry it out with out the fear of disappointing the slave.

Now, I do apologize to those dominants that I have put down in the past or said they were lazy or not strong enough they might have just been living out their desires I could have said no thank you to them hoping to transform them into the evil dominant I seek but if that is not their desire I do not have a right to change them.


If I were such a perfect slave I would have never had safe words or hard limits. While I have gotten rid of my limits and safe word I do have limitations base on family and friends that any dominant worth their salt can see so if I can trust some one to tie me up I should be able to trust them to make decisions about things that were hard limits, if I can’t well once you are tied to a cross do you really have much say in the matter!